How Children Understand Death: What to Say When a Loved One Dies

• 2024

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• David Schonfeld; Arwa Nasir

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This article describes how children of different ages understand death and gives advice on what to say when someone close to them dies. It suggests using simple, honest words and answering questions clearly. It also explains that children may react in many ways, like feeling sad or confused, and that it is important to support their feelings. The article encourages adults to be patient, listen carefully, and give comfort as children cope with loss.

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Focus Area: Mental Health

Audiences: Families & Children; Schools & Childcare Providers

Emergency Management Stage: Response

Keywords: Bereavement; Child; Communication; Death; Emotions; Grief; Parent-Child Relations

Institutions: Healthy Children

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